Masturbation is a kind of sexual intercourse for venting sexual desire.When sexual desire is impulsive, the phenomenon of rubbing the reproductive organs with fingers or other items to cause sexual pleasure (in men as to achieve ejaculation ", called masturbation. There are many young men and women or adults, but women are less male than men; sometimesIt also appears in children. Masturbation is not a symptom of men, but a bad habit. However, because this bad habit is closely related to men's sexual dysfunction, it is necessary to add discussion.
Initial masturbation, often under the physiological conditions of the erection of the penis in adolescence, due to the tight panties, it causes irritation to the genitals; or because of curiosity and playing with the genitals, seeking sexual pleasure, and then seeking sexual satisfaction.Coupled with young ignorance, it has exacerbated the hair under the role of some languages, text, pictures, etc., and has become an indescribable habit of controlling self -control over time.Married people have a lot of people who have masturbation due to separation or other reasons, and even see it in the old age of the widow.
How much harm is masturbation?
This is an important question that must be answered.The traditional saying with etiquette and religion, and many of the current health propaganda materials, write too much the masturbation harm, so that many young masturbation people have a heavy burden.Due to his career, the author has experienced a common characteristic of these young people from a large number of patients' letters and languages, that is, "regret in the past because of the sin of the pit because of ignorance and the sin of the pit."The abyss, and you can never extricate yourself. "" In the future, you can only be accompanied by illness, and spend a lifetime without joy ", depression, nourishment, almost lost confidence in life.In fact, masturbation does not have such serious consequences.The author fully agreed that Professor Wu Jieping, Professor Wu Jieping of the Department of Urology in my country: "The harm of masturbation lies in the spiritual burden that it often causes", that is, the seriousness of masturbation caused the above -mentioned spiritual burden far more than the masturbation itself.
Masturbation addiction, physical and mental health will be affected, so the inner contradiction is heavier. It is manifested by pursuing sexual pleasure before masturbation, and never reaches the purpose. When the sexual pleasure disappears, it may hurt the body."General, pain regret.For a long time in the contradictions that cannot be controlled and self -blame regret, you can guide the rose to be unimparkable, memory loss, essence, sluggishness, lonely personality, lack of interest in surrounding things, weak will, self -blame irritability, self -blame irritability, Even the psychological damage such as dual personality.
In particular, fear of masturbation will affect future sexual functions. Therefore, it will not meet the sexual requirements of the future wife, the relationship between husband and wife, and family happiness.It affects normal work and study.If this is the past, it may develop sexual dysfunction.
However, a large amount of clinical information has been fully proven. Once determined to overcome the stop, these damages generally disappear and recover physical and mental, without having to worry about it.First of all, you must have perseverance, and the second must pay attention to methods.Perseverance is the objective expression of the process of exercising the will. You should be a period of tempering will during your youth.EssenceIt should be believed in science and hygiene. Masturbation should not be 4 ancient interests, forgiveness and letting yourself, nor do you have to panic and regret.
Can not consider masturbation as "criminal behavior" and "shameful", but must also see the above hazards of masturbation. Therefore, while consciously restrained sexual desire, we must concentrate interest in work and study.Knowledge, actively participate in beneficial cultural and sports activities and collective activities, and cultivate wider happiness and interest in life.
How to prevent frequent masturbation
For young people with masturbation habits before going to bed, they should conduct necessary sports activities after night reading, and then wipe the bath warm water to fall asleep calmly.
If you are used to masturbation during dawn, you can get up early and engage in healthy exercise.
Also pay attention to the hygiene of sexual organs. The vulva should often be washed & rsquo; remove the stains to avoid stimulating foreskin and glans; the underwear should not be too tight, but also to prevent the genitals of the stroke;I reluctantly hold down the urine; once the idea of masturbation appears, I must not be able tolerate myself, even if it is only "only this time" self -confidence, I can't agree.A young man must be able to overcome masturbation.
(Editor in charge: Zheng Guisheng)
