"Fast Gunners" can be described as prestigious on the battlefield, but in sexual life, it has become synonymous with premature ejaculation.Men's most afraid is to suffer from premature ejaculation, which seriously affects the normal life of men.Premature ejaculation is a very serious disease. Not only is he suffering huge psychological pressure, but he also has no face in front of his own woman.If a male friend does not want to be the "fast gunman" on the bed, you can return to the real man, please read the following carefully. It is the perfect manual for you to return to the "lasting man".
We have feelings and need emotional communication, and because the sexual function of men and women has the characteristics of a male fast and female, men show rapid erection, and quickly enter the orgasm and ejaculate.A few minutes to ten minutes, or even longer before.This is a natural difference, so it is commonplace for men to ejaculate and the woman has not reached the climax.This situation is at most a personal discord in cooperation, not just thinking that it is just a man's problem.
1. First of all, you must exclude all kinds of "fake premature ejaculation"
Outpatients often encounter such a situation. Many people come to see premature ejaculation. When asked about the situation, how can I judge whether it is premature ejaculation?
Generally speaking, the premature ejaculation that occurs when newly married, separate for a period of time, high work pressure or physical fatigue, and premature ejaculation is mostly false and is excessive.Because most of the newlywed men have no sexual experience, all aspects of sexual life have not achieved sufficient coordination, and the degree of proficiency is also low.However, the night of the cave house is in a highly exciting state, and a considerable number of semen is accumulated in the sexual organs. When encountering strong sexual stimuli, it will naturally can't wait to ejaculate.In the same way, the husband and wife have been separated for a long time, and the sexual life is irregular. After a long time, there will be a similar effect on the wedding and false premature ejaculation.But many men will have a heavy psychological burden on their backs and affect their future sex.
In addition to physiological reasons, there are still many psychological reasons for pseudo -premature ejaculation, such as pre -marital cohabitation, poor private conditions in residence, worrying about pregnancy, nervousness, fear of failure, physical fatigue, too strong woman, pursuing the woman's long time, etc.These are mostly due to poor and negative psychological states.
2. What is the real premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is divided into two types: primary and secondary.
The characteristics of primary premature ejaculation are: ① The first sexual intercourse occurs fast.Less than 1 minute.
The characteristics of secondary premature ejaculation are: ① The period of lack of ejaculation before premature ejaculation is normal; ② premature ejaculation may be caused by other diseases: maybe suddenly or gradually appear; ③ patients at a certain stageTreatment to relieve or cure.
Natural variability premature ejaculation is irregular, non -sustainable, and the scope of normal fluctuations in sexual life.Only by accident may be related to the recent sex frequency, the freshness of the sexual partner, and the sexual intercourse environment; the subjective description of the dysfunction of premature ejaculation sperm functional description has persistent or non -continuous ejaculation earlier than expected, but the incubation period is in the normal range, which can be extended and may be related to patients.The error cognition is related.
Third, see how the doctor diagnosed premature ejaculation!
The cause of premature ejaculation is very complicated.In the past, due to the defects of testing technology, doctors in general hospitals often can only perform prostate liquids, B -ultrasound routine examinations or the cause of experience diagnosis, so that the curative effect is not good.Or what is the so -called high -tech: cortex nervous, 骶 marrow nerve, sponge body reflection, basin floor muscle function and other professional testing to diagnose and treat you, these are not desirable.
As the diagnosis of premature ejaculation is the ultimate collection of detailed medical history (the history of sexual life, sexual frequency, number of erectile times, erectile hardness, etc.) and physical examination. Through standardized diagnosisensure!
Fourth, most patients with premature ejaculation can give birth
Premature ejaculation is also a common problem that some male friends are difficult to open up, and some patients even suffer from heart and body disease.Premature ejaculation means that ejaculation occurs before the penis enters the vagina, or ejaculation occurs in short time in the vagina, and ejaculation often occurs before the sexual satisfaction of both couples.Premature ejaculation is also the category.Severe patients with premature ejaculation will lead to infertility before exposing the female body. Most patients with premature ejaculation do not affect fertility.
Both premature ejaculation belong to functional changes, and sexual dysfunction and fertility do not have a direct correspondence.The doctor told us: "Generally, the fertility of most patients with premature ejaculation is not affected. As long as the penis can enter the vagina to complete the ejaculation movement, even if ejaculation is ejaculated in advance."There can also be large differences under different conditions.For patients with severe premature ejaculation before the penis enters the vagina, it is also necessary to help him complete the "dad" industry.
Fifth, premature ejaculation, can children not have to be treated?The answer is of course no!
Because children are part of life, but not all, the sex life of husband and wife also needs more attention!So how to treat it?
First of all, we believe that the psychological counseling of premature ejaculation patients is a particularly important link.Because the premature ejaculation patients we have seen have some characteristics, they are introverted, sensitive, and the most terrible is pessimistic personality.Most men may have just started sexual life, because they lack experience and are not used to it. Most of them can adapt for a period of time to reach normal.Some people do not adapt for a long time, and premature ejaculation will be formed.We need to help these patients perform personality analysis to help them adapt to and overcome this mood.
Secondly, couple education is also important.Sometimes, premature ejaculation has a lot to do with his wife.Some female comrades are conservative, afraid of pain, unreasonable, and twisted. These are factor that causes or aggravate male premature ejaculation.When we encounter such a situation, we must also analyze, solve the burden of women's ideological burdens, and let the husband and wife achieve harmony.
(Editor in charge: Wang Shaohua)
