Do you find that sexual desire is normal before marriage, but the various performances after marriage make yourself dissatisfied and hurt your wife.So, what is the reason for your sexual desire after marriage?
After marriage, the cause of sexual desires of men
1. Excessive fatigue, or weak constitution.At this time, men often have no sexual desire, but just want to take a break, or to recuperate.
2. Disease, weak constitution and pain.In this case, men's sexual desire is not strong. Only when the disease is cured and the body recovers can sexual desire recover.
3. There are incorrect views on sexual life.Some people think that festivals can maintain good health; some people think that sterilization will inevitably affect sexual function after surgery; and some people always feel sore muscle after intercourse, thinking that it is caused by excessive sexual life.These ideas will cause people to fear and disgust their sexual life, and gradually weaken sexual desire.
4. The husband and wife are not emotional or sexual life is not harmonious.This needs to be adjusted and improved.
5. Fear of the woman's pregnancy, so she has some concerns about intercourse.At present, there are many contraceptive methods, and it is well used well.If you don't worry, you can consult with the doctor.After taking contraceptive measures in science, he is still afraid of the woman's pregnancy, then it is completely unnecessary.
How to deal with men's sexual desire after marriage?
1. Eliminate concerns: Decreased sexual desire is the normal phenomenon of middle -aged people, but decline does not mean completely disappearing. Disappearing does not mean permanent disappearance.Through consulting and treatment, you can restore and maintain full sexual interest, making sexual relationships as early as the beginning.
2. Talk about your inner feelings: You can freely express the fear, anger, grief, anxiety and other unwell mood in your heart in front of the doctor, which helps to clean up the confusion and interference in your head, which is a key step to weaken the negative effects.Under the doctor's compassion and calm consultation, you will have a sense of security.
3. Increase the new life interest: In the past scene, men say a few more words "I love you", "Your body is really beautiful", "You are really sexy" and so on, and so on.It is undoubtedly active.During the period of love, some explicit words will sometimes make the two sides even more happy, similar to "going to the left", "let me press on you", it also has the effect of improving sexual love, because you can expressThings to do.
Reminder: Men's sexual desire is not just these factors, sometimes excessive pressure can also cause men to lose sexual desire.Therefore, in order to ensure the normal sexual desire of men, it is necessary to strengthen physical exercise, relieve work pressure, etc., so that men have no worries.
(Editor in charge: Zheng Guisheng)
