Clinically, men mainly have low sexual desire, erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation and non -ejaculation.The incidence of sexual dysfunction is very high, such as the incidence of premature ejaculation is 14%& mdash; 41%, and the prevalence of male ED in Asian people is 2%& mdash; 88%.These diseases require comprehensive treatment. Drugs are only on one aspect. The correct understanding of sexual life also plays an important role in treatment.
First, pay attention to the communication between partners.In the poem "Spirit and Meat" of American female poet Annie Brettrert, the spirit and meat are metaphorized as their biological sisters.Sexual life should also be the best combination of emotional and sexual behavior, and feelings are the foundation.Sexual behavior without emotional behavior must eventually have sexual dysfunction.In the outpatient clinic, I often encounter some patients, because of the emotional problems between partners, which leads to low or ED.If the emotional foundation is firm, you will take care of the other party's feelings to avoid sexual dysfunction problems.On the contrary, only if you care about your own pleasure, it will lead to the emergence of a series of problems.
Second, we must understand the role and limitations of the drug and attach importance to their own adjustments.The key to treating sexual dysfunction is to adjust itself. Drugs only help patients to correct bad states, rather than maintaining drugs for life.In the process of sex, if men have a long time and have no pleasure, they are prone to low sexual desire.If the expected value is too high and the erectile function is not good, you will have a big burden psychologically, which will inevitably increase the risk of ED.In the process of sexual life, once the excitement exceeds a certain threshold, it cannot be controlled. Patients with premature ejaculation stop before that, and the excitement will be reduced before it will help the treatment of premature ejaculation.
Third, avoid some wrong concepts.First of all, about the number of sexual life, some people think that the more the better, some people think that the less the better, it is actually moderate.The ancients believed: "People in the year of the year, one leaky on the fourth day; the 30th year, one leaky on the eighth day; the 40th year, the 16th day of the leak;Ten, that is, if you are closed, do not recover. If you are still strong, you will leak in January. "Modern medicine believes that the number of sexual life does not have a unified regulation, and the degree of sexual life should be flexibly grasped according to individual differences, and generally does not feel fatigue on the second day.
Finally, many men are worried about the size of genitals.In fact, many patients are within the normal range, and at most they are small within the normal range.Women's vaginal perimeter has more nerves and sensitivity, and there are very few deep vaginal nerves. Therefore, men with small penis do not have to worry. The small penis does not affect the quality of sexual life.The size of the penis does not determine the level of sexual function, just as many great men in history are small.
(Editor in charge: Internship Yao Yalin)
