Masturbation has always been a secret garden of many people. Such deliberately ignoring the happiness they created for themselves, and looking at masturbation across a layer of veil, it has a adverse effect on men's physical and mental health.So, how should we treat men masturbation?
Male masturbation psychological misunderstanding
1. Only big talents will masturbate
Even the innocent little baby will masturbate, maybe when the mother helps to wash Peng Peng, she inadvertently encounters the baby.
When chickens or small peaches, or when babies explore their bodies, they feel that touching the body, including sexual organs, can bring physical pleasure.They all said to the children: "Shame your face, play chicken" and the like.
2. Masturbation is shame and sin
Now only the old ancient board will use "masturbation" and "self -defense" to masturbate, which makes people feel ashamed from the bottom of their hearts.Masturbation can bring yourself happiness, soothe the loneliness of the soul, and relieve stress anxiety. As long as you don't hurt yourself and others, there is no need to put on your moral burden.In particular, women don't have to feel sinfulness after secret masturbation. On the contrary, touching their sexual organs to experience their sexy side will help let go of their bodies, and sex will be more fulfilling.
3. Why must you masturbate if you have a sexual partner?
Everyone's sexual needs are not the same. When the supply and demand curve of their sexual partners is unbalanced, masturbation can fill the gap in a timely manner. For example, when you are sick or traveling on a pillow, masturbation can meet each other's sexual needs.Therefore, masturbation is by no means a negative partner's sexual ability. Instead, it is embarrassing to help each other, help each other masturbate, or trust the other party to help themselves masturbate. The relationship will be closer and more interesting.
4. Masturbation will make people premature ejaculation or lose man
This is the superstition of "a drop of essence, ten drops of blood". The ancient people often moved out of the ancients and said that it would take 8 days to recover after the masturbation ejaculation, and the house only took 3 days; the fact is not the case.Seeing a shame, as soon as he was nervous, premature ejaculation or temporarily impotence.
The ejaculation of men during masturbation does not prevent the function of making semen. On the contrary, in order to "cherish essence", just tolerate ejaculation, or pinch the root of the penis to force the semen to flow back, but will cause ejaculation weakness or inflammation of the prostate.
5. The idea of masturbation is best to be sublimated
When you want to masturbate but you can't masturbate, it is usually not suitable for people, affairs, time, and land, so you have to dispel the thoughts.Probably only saints can always raise their desires, no desires, or because religious beliefs must be abstained.Mortals of flesh and blood, when there are no these concerns, do not need to be fake, not suitable for masturbation, the idea of moving attention is more practical.
6. Masturbating humanity is strong
Boring, masturbating, there are many people who use masturbation to vent their stress and change their mood.Masturbation is one of the ways to satisfy sexual desire. If you have sexual impulses, you will want to vent; if you are tired, you have no sexual interest. You face the seven emotions and six desires.
The benefits of masturbation of men
Masturbation effectively solves my sexual desire
This is the most fundamental benefit. There is no doubt that even many people will say that masturbation is actually a last resort, but no matter what, your sexual impulse and sexual desire will be effectively satisfied and relieved after the masturbation process.This is beneficial to personal physical and mental health. Everything cannot be pursued to be perfect, there are disadvantages, and each other's reason for each other. We should be clear.After all, those foods keep you your life, which is the most meaningful.
Masturbation is the seasoning of husband and wife sex
We can simply think about it. The life of our ordinary people is usually a lifetime. In my lifetime, I can only accept one person's sexual service in the same life with one person.At the time, we can neither go out to find a lady, nor can we have an extramarital affair. How can our sexual desire find a new way of life, which stimulates new vitality. Of course, only masturbation is the best and most rational choice., Will not hurt anyone, will not hurt any relationship and feelings, effectively prevent extramarital affairs, reduce the chance of staining dirty diseases, and facilitate cheap and safe, and is it more appropriate than masturbation? In this case, in this caseI don't think it is.
Masturbation can effectively treat premature ejaculation
You may have to sneer, saying that masturbation will only cause premature ejaculation, so please allow me to laugh at your ignorance and ignorance.Why can masturbation be treated with premature ejaculation? Many people have only one psychological barrier. My advice to patients with premature ejaculation is to masturbate with your girlfriend or lover.In the real room, your body will not be too sensitive, and it effectively prevents premature ejaculation in the same room, and then you have a positive suggestion in your psychology.The indicator, later, you will never premature ejaculation anymore. This is a psychotherapy, but it is a very effective method for treating premature ejaculation.Essence
(Editor in charge: Zheng Guisheng)
