Question: This year, I walked into my marriage for the second time, and my wife was 6 years younger than me.After marriage, I found that my sexual function was "troublesome", not only difficulty in erection, but also unable to last, and ended many times in failure.I was just in my early forties. In my first marriage, my sexual life was very harmonious, and I never had any problems.The relationship with the current wife is very good. Why is this happening?
Answer: Men who have not lived in sex after separation or divorce after being separated or divorced are prone to this situation.The process of erection is that neuroma is doing "gymnastics". The nerves are responsible for passing the signal, and the blood vessels complete the movement. Because there is no sexual life for a long time, the sex organs are temporarily "rusting" like a machine lack of oil. It is inevitable"Accident".Psychologically speaking, the lack of exercise usually occurs, and there will also be a situation of panic and unsatisfactory.
You do n’t have to worry too much. You must first relieve the burden of psychology. Before you sex, you may wish to give yourself a psychological hint. I believe that you and your wife can get sexual satisfaction this time.At the same time, try to train yourself, touch the sensitive area, and use masturbation to exercise erectile ability.You can also practice with your wife. You should choose the suitable time and a good environment for both parties. The position is to be able to watch the other person's whole body and make the active party of touching it convenient and natural.
Before sexual life, you may wish to take a deep breath and focus your attention at your own and in front of you. Imagine that the breath of the other person has soothed your whole body and try to feel the caress of the other person. At the same time, communicate with your wife in time after sex.If these methods are not effective, don't blindly take Wan Aike and other aphrodisiac tonic, go to the hospital for related treatment.
(Editor in charge: Chen Bong)
