After men entering adolescence, the body's in vivo is constantly secreted, and various physiological functions have mutated, making the reproductive organs and their functions develop rapidly.During the love period, psychological activities related to sex, emotion, memory, imagination and other psychological activities were extremely active.The girl's bright eyes, a slim figure and aroma. In short, the girl's vision, taste, hearing, tactile, and smell of the young man brought by the guy's vision, taste, hearing, touch, and smell is an important factor that caused his sexual impulse.So how do men control the impulse?
First of all, you should break the mystery of "sex".Due to historical reasons, people in our country talk about "sex" change, "sex, sex, obscene" thoughts are deeply ingrained in some people's minds.Therefore, the guys should read some books that introduce sexual knowledge, enhance the ability of restraint and impulse, and reduce the mystery of "sex".
Secondly, the young man should strengthen his will.When sexual desire is generated, it is necessary to use a corresponding method to remind and imply yourself to relieve sexual impulses.In addition to talking with the girl, she can also participate in some useful social activities and entertainment activities with her to disperse the attention of sex and sublimate love.You know, real love should be "respectful and noble, not just emotional impulse and tide."In love, understand yourself, care for each other, give new charm to lust, and use rationality to measure the depth of eroticism.The wider the scope of a person's non -sexual love, the more noble sex.
Third, use masturbation appropriately.When the guys broke out in sexual passion, when they reached the point of "fanaticism", they could not control it. They only needed masturbation as a hobby and did not endanger others and society.
Fourth, when getting along with girls, you should appropriately reduce the love words and excessive intimacy.From the perspective of physiology, stroking, kissing, and hugs are most likely to arouse men's sexual desire.Therefore, the guys must be good at self -restraint.As Salo Inga said: "Love is the same as charcoal, and it must be cooled to cool it. Let it burn arbitrarily, then it will burnt one heart." Because sexual behavior involves both responsibility for yourself,It also means that the responsibility of others has a more impact on society.The degree of affection in love is the scale of whether love is mature.
Pre -marital sex is the demented behavior of social morality during love. It is very harmful to the development of love.
