It was 20 years ago.The gentleman is more introverted and there are not many words. Although he was busy and tired at that time, when he returned home, the husband and wife were always loving.One night, when we were preparing to be affectionate, who knew that he suddenly was as "shy" like the ball that was omitted."How to do & hell; & hellip; Hey, forget it, forget it, I won't come & hellip; & hellip;Don't dare to look at me.It can be seen that his mood was bad.
Facing the sudden situation, I also stunned: Why is this?At this time, my first reaction thought of the advice on the relevant information about psychotherapy.Therefore, I secretly warned myself not to be impatient, and not to make the husband feel uncomfortable because of his uneasy look, so as not to leave a shadow in his heart, and once the habit is formed, there is no "sex blessing" at all.After understanding this, I pretended to stabilize his emotions without any matter, let him calm down, take a good rest, and talk about everything tomorrow.
In the next few days, he repeatedly happened.I was not angry, there was no irony, and I didn't even have a little complaint. Instead, I analyzed the reason with him: What are the difficulties at work?Is the body uncomfortable?Or did you suddenly think of something unpleasant?While advising him not to worry, he was gentle and gentle, comforted him with sincerity.A month later, he miraculously restored his spirit.Afterwards, I learned that the reason was because of his misunderstanding of his work of his colleagues. Honesty, he spoiled his grievances because he was not good at arguing.Today, we are in their 50s. When we mention the experience, my gentleman has been thinking about "cold treatment" at the time.
Looking back at the situation at the time, if I have no calm mind and attitude, I just complain, or I do not use sincere love to soothe him, but to let him develop, then the gentleman is likely to become impotence.At that time, it was not only the "dignity" of the man of the gentleman, but also the "sex blessing" life of our husband and wife. Maybe it would continue to develop, and the situation would be even worse!
Now I often hear someone say: "When we are young, we don't know how to love." In fact, many young people do not understand, but do not cultivate with sincerity, and do not give sincere love, so when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, when the problem comes, it is when the problem comes.Make mistakes often make mistakes.
In sex, there must be a lot of couples similar to us.But I firmly believe that the flower of "sex blessings" that has gained sincere and true love will never "wither".
(Editor in charge: Fan Mo Yun)
