Calfidity generally refers to low sexual desire and is not interested in sex.Such diseases are a big threat to family harmony. In severe cases, they will cause infertility due to less sexual life.
Several factor that causes cold
1. The work is too busy, the body is too tired, and I am exhausted when I return home at night
Petra Bodaton, a University of London, said, "Stress and fatigue are the biggest killer of sexual passion! A person has no time and energy to enjoy sex, which will mean that he has no time and energy to enjoy a good life!"Chronic fatigue can bring a lot of factors that cause men's more common factors.Solution: Adjust the lifestyle.Give yourself a time to relax, eat well during this time, rest well, and exercise appropriately.Peterra said, "Only by relaxing with yourself can get along better with his lover."
Second, lack of sexual fantasy
Many husbands and wives have gradually lost their sexual interests in their lives, part of them because they lack sexual fantasies.Solution: Make yourself impulsive in various ways.Petra pointed out that many women have never had sexual pleasure and sexual impulse in their lives, which is very sad.At the same time, she suggested that those men and women who have not sexual impulse can try to look at pornographic books and then germinate their sexual fantasies and sexual impulses.There should be candlelight in sex, flowers and shadows, and Yuehua, everything is everything.People who are in sex should enjoy it.
3. The bad emotions of the other party make the spouse's sexual life dim and colorless
Psychoanalysis doctor Susan Owen said, "If the other party holds resentment, anger, and nervousness in sex, their sexual life will be discordant. For husbands and wives who have been sexing for a long time, they cultivate good emotions in sexual life.It is essential. "Solution: Focusing on this bad emotion with the other party and resolving it.Husbands and wives need to communicate and ask each other's feelings. If they cannot accept the sex life of the other party, they need to say the bad emotions in sexual life with their lover.
4. Destroy sexual life between husband and wife during the fertility
Medical experts pointed out that couples cannot perform sexual behavior during the baby's birth.Husbands need to adjust and control themselves at this time, and distinguish the family life of family life. Sexual needs to be pushed back.Solution: Reasonably adjust and control yourself.During the period before or after childbirth, the husband could not perform sex for several months. In this regard, they need to correctly understand this problem. Realizing that sexual life is only part of family life.Behavioral, as a husband and future father, must be soberly recognized.Women also have emotional phenomena during pregnancy.The emotional here refers to the transfer of most emotions from her husband to the child during the period of pregnancy and postpartum for a period of time.
What are the performances of cold sex?
First, the decrease in sexual desire and indifferent sexuality: refers to the cold sexual desire, no corresponding sexual opinions are made under the conditions of the same sexual stimulus, and the non -sexual wishes are generated. Men are reflected in the poor penis erection and low sexual desire. Women are reflected in sexual sexual sex.The desire for life is not fierce and the sexual wishes are generated.
Second, most patients have decreased sexual desires due to their mental and social causes, such as worrying and mental patience, excessive pressure on the cause, or suffering from their careers, perennial stalemate between couples, and the history of painful births in the past.If sexual desire is lost, some patients are seriously lacking due to the effect of sexy glands, and pituitary adenoma secrete prolactin and other device quality.Those who have decreased gonadic effects use the corresponding drugs; those who affect sexual desire will stop or quit alcohol immediately.At the same time, psychotherapy is together, and the couple finds hidden factors, dispel hidden concerns and miss, and use romantic sexual imagination to weaken sex.You can also try sexy excitement and rehearsal method, but you should also listen to it naturally, and avoid seeking orgasm.Low sexual desire and sexual desire loses both sexes.
(Editor in charge: Zheng Guisheng)
