Modern medicine has given a concise definition to "" (ED): this is a penis erectile disorder, usually refers to the penis cannot be erected or erected under sexual stimulation and sexual desire.Reducing, so that it cannot be performed with sexual life.The following understanding of this definition requires the following points: 1. The stimulus of this sex must be from the adequate stimulus of "spouse"; 2. If you should really judge whether you can complete sexual intercourse;2-3 months of running-in, with the practical experience of sexual life and then valuation; 4, any extramarital sex will bring deviations on judgment.If these principles are deviated, it is easy to misunderstand the self -judgment, put on a pivotal hat, and then put on the spiritual shackles and stunned.People are easy to get trapped in the following misunderstandings when judging impotence:
Misunderstanding 1.Several sexual intercourse in the early days after marriage is used as impotence
This situation is quite common. In fact, there must be the principles of 2 or three months after the start of sexual life between the spouse.At the beginning of the wedding, especially the wedding night, it was too excited, exhausted, and even drunk; or due to the lack of cooperation between couples during the wedding stage, it caused a small erectile function.Originally, it was not surprising.There are also individual newlywed couples who are not in good things, because they have tasted banned fruit before marriage. At that time, they went to find out, try, nervousness, and fear of complex mood. The failure rate was high, so they left their own shadows in their minds.This situation should have a suitable stage in the intercourse after marriage.
Misunderstanding 2.See the orgasm and pleasure of the unable to cause the female's lust and pleasure as impotence
This is a bigger error. As long as the man's penis can erected and placed people, as long as the man can successfully complete the ejaculation and reach the orgasm of the lust through sexual traffic, it is not impotence, even if it appears with sexual pleasure.One of the characteristics of men and women's sexual function is "male fast and female slow", so if the man has ejaculated, the woman has not yet entered the climax of human nature. This is a physiological phenomenon. At most, it is not a harmonious problem in sexual life. It should never be considered impotence.
Misunderstanding 3.It is considered masturbation to cause impotence.
More common in unmarried young people, it is a common understanding of understanding.Needless to say, masturbation is a common behavior of adolescents. Indeed, some people are worried that masturbation will induce impotence, and some people really have impotence afterwards.However, modern medicine has stated that the occurrence of such impotence is not essentially because masturbation damage the sexual organs, but it is precisely the long -term masturbation causes spiritual and psychological factors.In fact, the psychological activity of masturbation is very complicated, and it is often in anxiety, guilt, depression, and anxiety. This unhealthy thinking activity hinders sexual functions normally.However, even a long -term masturbation person, as long as the above -mentioned spiritual "bumps" can be lifted, impotence may not occur.
