Dr. Qi: Hello!
We have been married for 9 years, and the couple has been loving, but in recent years, dysfunction has appeared in sex. In the past, husbands can maintain for about 10 minutes when they are in love. Now they have ejaculated less than 2 minutes after entering the vagina.At first I thought it was caused by his busy work recently, but it has been 10 months so far.It has been 5 months for buying some medicines for taking kidney and solid essence, which has no effect.Is this premature ejaculation?What are the causes?Is there any way to treat?
Yunnan Qin Moumou
"Doctor, I have sex with my wife, and I ejaculate without a few times. To this end, my wife often complains about me." In the male clinic, you can often hear such a complaint.The fundamental reason for premature ejaculation is: the man feels that the man feels endless and fails to achieve full enjoyment; more importantly, women cannot get sexual satisfaction, which affects the quality of sexual life between sexual partners.
Give premature ejaculation
For severe premature ejaculation, the diagnosis is consistent, that is, ejaculation before entering the vagina.But it is difficult to give light and moderate premature ejaculation the next complete and accurate definition.Even if the experts in this area are divergent, it is sincere.Commonly divided into the following::
1.The time from the time as the standard from the penis to the vagina to ejaculation. It is generally believed that it is premature than 2 minutes, but the "strict" person believes that it should be shorter than 30 seconds to count premature ejaculation.
2.The number of tolls is used as a standard penis into the vagina less than 10 or 30 times as premature ejaculation.
3.Taking the response of sexual partners as the standard, if there are more than 50%of the sexual intercourse opportunities in sexual activities, the woman cannot reach the orgasm can also be called premature ejaculation.
4.The ability to control ejaculation reflection as the standard Kablan believes that ejaculation can be controlled after learning training.If ejaculation cannot be controlled for a long time, it is premature ejaculation.
Most normal people can properly control the time of ejaculation, that is, ejaculation when wants ejaculation.The premature ejaculation is not the same. He lacks this control, and once he is excited, he quickly ejaculates.Therefore, it can be considered that the premature ejaculation person's feelings of the climax precursors cannot be sensitively noticed, and do not know how to control ejaculation.
Evergreen
Men's attention to ejaculation control is related to the degree of satisfaction of women's sexuality, which is related to the degree of education.Higher educators often care about the satisfaction of the woman, so premature ejaculation is often raised.
It is generally believed that most premature ejaculation is functional, but those with organicity cannot be ignored.There are many reasons for premature ejaculation, and the following are the following:
1.For organic changes, this is a factor that must be considered and eliminated first.The foreskin lace is too short and phimosis, which can increase the sensitivity of the penis head when the penis is erected and causes rapid ejaculation;Chronic, seminal vesiculitis, spermal inflammation, etc.; Penile hard constraints, pain when penile erection, etc., and premature ejaculation will also occur; hypertension, diabetes and other patients, as well as taking certain drugs (especially aphrodisiac), will also experience premature ejaculation.EssenceThe survey found that the incidence of premature ejaculation in diabetes was much higher than that of erectile dysfunction.
2.Quick masturbation habits should not be short due to the orgasm of the time, and each time it ejaculates, it can be accompanied by a orgasm, so repeated masturbation in a short period of time to achieve the pleasure brought by the instantaneous orgasm.Many premature ejacists believe that masturbation is an abnormal behavior, but it cannot be restrained. He is afraid of being found by others, and the rhythm of action is fast. He strives to ejaculate as soon as possible.Over time, the habit of fast ejaculation has been formed, that is, premature ejaculation.
3.Insufficient experience will affect ejaculation control capabilities. Young people are excited and fast. After middle age, ejaculation control capabilities are gradually strengthened. It is no longer easy to excite and the reaction ability is weakened. Therefore, premature ejaculation naturally relieves.This is why most men have ejaculation or premature ejaculation during the wedding stage.After several weeks to months, even after several years of hard work, ejaculation self -control will be gradually formed.
4.Many men who have the ability to control ejaculation for a long time have caused excessive sexual "savings" due to the low frequency of sexual intercourse, which increases sexual excitement.It is common in young men's initial contact and long -term lack of sexual partners. After a long period of abstinence or high excitement, once sexual intercourse is sexual intercourse, premature ejaculation is easily premature due to excessive response.Some people are concerned about premature ejaculation, intentionally or unintentionally reduce sexual intercourse opportunities, but instead make premature ejaculation more and more intense.
5.Because the husband and wife are not in harmony with the wife, the wife always wants to end the sexual intercourse quickly; or the man hate his wife, revenge his psychology, deliberately make sexual partners unsightly, and quickly ejaculate.Or are not interested in his wife and end early; or overly fear of his wife, overly inferiority, so he feels depressed during the intercourse and has a heavy concern.These are easy to cause premature ejaculation.(#（#)
6.The environmental conditions are poor like generations of people living together, and they often act in a hurry.Or in the same room in a place where there is no sense of security, he is very nervous, and he is afraid of being discovered and hurriedly acts.Afterwards, I suspected that I was sick, and anxiety and nervousness became more ill.
7.Psychological burdens are heavy. Some people have watched some pornographic videos and felt that the actor among them was "long -term war". Although they were not "touched" or "falling into the battle", they also "extinguished" in 3 to 5 minutes. Worried about the woman, the woman was worried about the woman.Can't satisfy, feel that he is not a qualified man.Or when three or five people are bored together, they are joking and "comparing" with each other. Some people can't help but be heroic, which causes their own normal sexual function to be affected and premature ejaculation.
8.Physical factors are weak and weak, and their costs are not enough.Commonly known as "slow, go fast."The so -called "kidney deficiency and essence of kidney deficiency" in traditional Chinese medicine.It is also one of the most common reasons for premature ejaculation.
Or afraid of sexual intercourse damage to health.Some people suffer from chronic diseases and think that they have lost their kidneys and are afraid that sexual intercourse will damage health.Extracting the condition, but not restraining sexual desire.Therefore, it often decides quickly, from reducing physical consumption.
Some women do not understand the man's sexual ability, and they are cold and ironically, making the man worry and disturbing; if you focus on the eyes, you are angry and ignore, and the man is so embarrassed, which makes the man's psychological burden.The next time I have sex, it is even more like a defeat on the battlefield. It is shocked and defeated, so that premature ejaculation has become more and more intense. As a result, it becomes a real incompetence.
To what extent need to be treated
Since people's understanding of premature ejaculation is multi -direction, which situation needs to see a doctor?There are five common situations here:
1.As long as you see nude, even the sexual color of books, and film and television, ejaculation appears, which is the so -called "seeing color flow essence" and "slippery essence".
2.As long as the two are in contact, they have no contact with sexual organs, and ejaculation appears, which is so -called "one touch".
3.As soon as the two people's genitals were in contact, ejaculation appeared, and Chinese medicine called "seeing flowers".
4.In the past, sexual life can reach a long period of time, and the recent sexual intercourse time has been significantly reduced compared with the past, and the woman has a long period of failure to get sexual satisfaction.
5.Enter the vagina to twitch to ejaculate several times, that is, the so -called "discrepancies".
Needless to say, the first four categories should be treated as soon as possible to treat specialists.And the latter category, of course, depends on the attitude of both parties.If the woman is very satisfied, and she feels that there is nothing wrong, they don't have to go to the doctor.The author believes that for mild premature ejaculation, the concept of fuzzy can be adopted. If patients have the requirements for treatment, doctors should not be cooked in the concepts of normal human sex time for 2 to 6 minutes, but they should be considered to give positive treatment.
It should be pointed out that a misunderstanding of "premature ejaculation" and seeking medical treatment, that is, emphasizes the sexual satisfaction of the woman too much. Before the woman reached the orgasm, the man had ejaculated as premature ejaculation.This saying that "the hitting surface" is too wide, it is unfair to the man, because there is a clear time difference for men and women's sexual reactions. This difference often causes discord in sexual life, but this cannot be with premature ejaculation.The disease is confused.Moreover, if the woman's sexual desire is hyperactive, the man's erection time is long, and the woman will not be satisfied; and if the woman has a dysfunction of orgasm, the man's erection time is too long.
(Editor in charge: Internship Lin Yan)
