People with sexual intercourse phobia are neither a serious sex perverted, nor a moral corruption, looking for flowers and asking Liu, but only psychological disorders, because the reason is more complicated.For example, some people have not been educated correctly during children's sexual psychological development, or some kind of strong stimulus, so it is not possible to form a normal sexual role, and it is difficult to complete the corresponding sexual behavior after adulthood.
There are two cases: one is the lack of love of parents, more lonely, and sexual psychology stays in the "narcissism" stage. It is comforted from masturbation and feels satisfied.The other is to be strongly stimulated. For example, when a man was a minor, he was responsible for taking care of the heterosexual elder who was paralyzed in the bed. He had to deal with her urination for her. In his mind, the women's genitals were associated with dirty.Later, he could communicate with women, but fear seeing female genitals and fear of sexual intercourse.
There are also some young people who cannot successfully complete sexual behavior during the first intercourse. Due to excessive excitement, fear, and nervousness, sexual function is abnormal.If this man is a timid or over -concerned person, then the first failure will cause an exaggerated impression in the brain & mdash; & mdash; think that he is incompetent, and even becomes more nervous at the next intercourse, scaring the intercourse.
So how to prevent sexual phobia?First of all, psychologically establish such a strong belief: human sex is a natural instinct. I am a person with this ability, as if you sweat without learning, you will digest food.Before sexual intercourse, you should only consider success, instead of considering failure, not worrying about what he has discovered before, but it should start from this time and determine "I will succeed."With such ideological preparations and psychological foundations, it has been half successful.
Secondly, it is very important to obtain the consent and consideration of his wife.In the treatment of male sexual intercourse fear, his wife is the key.The wife must give her husband more love to melt this fear.In addition to discussing this topic with her husband, the husband and wife read related sexual knowledge readings together to understand scientific knowledge and understand the normal sexual reactions of human beings.In addition, the husband must be encouraged to take the initiative in sexual life, step by step, and gradually overcome the fear.
