The psychological factors that cause sexual disorders are very complicated. Some people divide them into three categories in nature:
(1) Easy -to -affordable factors -refer to inhibitory education that is subject to during development;
(2) Cooring factors -sex trauma caused by an unexpected blow, which has a serious impact, is difficult to recover;
(3) Maintenance factors -related to long -term anxiety, long -term impact, difficult to recover or cannot be recovered.
Below we will discuss it in detail.
(1) Direct cause of sexual disorder: refers to various direct factors that occur during sexual intercourse.
1. Anxiety: It is one of the incentives, refers to fear that they cannot play sexual function normally, and they are afraid of failure.Anxiety itself can react vulnerable.It is speculated that this is through its activation of the sympathetic nerves. Anxiety often causes a vicious circle that fulfills its desire predictions, fearing failure & rarr; cause failure & rarr; aggravate psychology & rarr; failure & hellip; & hellip;If the drunken puppet comes, it leads to anxiety. From then on, it has failed in one after another. It considers himself to change permanently. This shadow has always troubled normal expression, and the prophecy is unfortunately fulfilled.Similarly, anxiety can block the sexual arousal of a woman. As a result, it affects the vagina lubrication, and finally causes to find an excuse to avoid sexual life, and the further sexual changes in turn will increase the anxiety.
Anxiety is related to personality. Some men lack their deserved masculinity — rough, strong, Shen Yi, hearty, irritability, they are still soft and lack of courage.Especially under unfavorable conditions, it is easy to panic, melancholy, regrets, and cause inner pain and anxiety due to the successful or unsuccessful sexual intercourse or unsuccessful.This may be caused by the level of sex hormone levels in the blood circulation.If the boy is exposed to estrogen too much during the fetus, his attacks are much less than other boys of the same age.Of course, the impact of sociology may be more important than the impact of this biological factors.
2. Fear of failure: It may be caused by the request of sexual partners to perform the obligation to perform sexual behavior, which is caused by the expectations of failed.If the man has not aroused, the woman proposes sexual intercourse, and the man is in a hurry due to anxiety and failure to erected, and then causing fear of failure.This requirement for implementing performance is more from the woman. Because he is stressful than the man's pressure, he must promptly evoke and erected, otherwise it will inevitably cause the situation of difficulty investigating pain.Instead, sexuality of women is not necessary for sexual intercourse.The corresponding problem of the woman is the dysfunction of sexual orgasm.It is more common in men with insecurity and men who are fighting for strong. They are often under too much pressure.
It is a good thing to satisfy the other party in sex, but if you walk into extremes, you will cause anxiety.If the man is too considering whether he stimulates the other party with the right technology in sexual activities, the woman is worried that her breasts are probably too small enough to cause each other's interest, which will cause fear of failure.Many patients in sexual treatment need to be guided to understand that they should be more sensitive to the needs of the partner.These patients who are eager to be ecstatic need the training of the other party. They need to learn the temporary selfish methods and enjoy the sexual experience of self -experience.This can overcome the excessive demand for winning the other party.
3. Set up a barrier of sexual experience: The most common is the bystander.He just acts as a bystander to evaluate the sexual performance of himself or the other party. He is not a full -hearted investment, but stays outside the sexual action. The full sexual reaction requires rich experience in erotic feelings.The conscious evaluation process obviously inhibits the process of natural regulatory reactions of the plant nerves.
4. Failure of communication: The most important cause of sexual dysfunction.For example, a woman needs a lot of clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, but you never tell the other party, so there is a non -sex orgasm disorder.
5. No effective sexual stimulation behavior: including visual, hearing, smelling, and touch.Many patients who seeks non -sex orgasm do not know what the clitoris is, where it is composed of friction and fantasy, and any deficiencies will affect sexual reactions.Especially women and middle -aged and elderly men.
6. Recall the concept of negative: such as focusing on some unpleasant or attractive places of the partner, such as too obese thighs, heavy breathing sounds, or your own breasts are not beautiful, these suppress self -response reactionsThe idea may be unconscious.
Talking or having unpleasant incidents before sexual intercourse, or recalling failure experience to make your confidence, suppress emotions, and affect erectile erectiles, leading to failure.Or recall some bad experiences introduced by his companions, or have experienced similar experiences in the past, such as sigmoid colonoscopy examination also leaves painful memories of patients. Newlyweds have unhappy associations and lead to vaginal spasm.
