Dr. Mike Schiller, a sex expert in Chicago, said: "When there is any threat to their self -esteem, men will panic and fear, and sex is the foundation of men's establishment and maintaining their self -esteem."Feeling panic and overwhelming, it must be that you have something to do well.So, what is usually touched the buttons of men's sexual panic, how do you avoid this embarrassing moment-?
NO.1 is afraid you have no response
Sex is the closest communication between love between love and body, and is a dialogue between spirit and flesh at the same time.When having sex, men always like to hear a few words of encouragement, or hear and see your clear response, whether the sound and physical movement are good.If you have been silent, and let him sweat, as if he is driving him aside, he will feel that your silence is a protest, dissatisfaction or carelessness.
The 30 -year -old writer Peter said: "Sometimes my girlfriend and I have sex with me suddenly, I think it must be that I do not do it well. So I started to think about it and don’t understand where I was wrong.There is no mood. "Some men said that as women's bodies no longer swing with their rhythm, they were afraid, as if swimming desperately in the deep sea.The 27 -year -old teacher Mike said: "Sometimes we chose a good posture, and felt that they were completely fused with each other without reservation, but she suddenly didn't move. I felt very strange, I just wanted to collect troops."
Do you believe, sometimes because of your neglect that your man has no interest in a moment.Dr. Schiller said: "Deep in the man's inside, he is always worried that the woman who cannot satisfy himself. If he cannot understand your reaction in time, he will immediately doubt himself. The best way is to truly express your feelings. If youLike, despite a happy groan or patting his shoulders gently. If shouting is not your style, then he swings his body with his rhythm, just like jumping with his pace.The rotation will be the source of his motivation. "
NO.2 What are so many contraceptive appliances?
Foods and toilet paper purchased from the supermarket prove that you will live, but don't carry so many contraceptive appliances home, at least you have to receive a more stable place.
24 -year -old Jack said: "When she just met her, everything went smoothly. Until I asked her if she had a condom, she took out several contraceptives of various brands from the drawer of the bedside table, and asked me to ask meWhat kind of texture, odor and size. I almost fainted. There is nothing great to prepare a few condoms at hand, but it is enough to open a brothel like her. "
It is not that only men should prepare these things, but you should pay attention to controlling inventory.To the man's opinion, "If I see her have a small box, there are some protection measures in it, I will think she is responsible for herself. On the contrary, if I see that she has a large box, I would like how many men and how many men she and how many men are with.Together- ".
NO. March menstrual phobia
No matter what men say, they feel lost when they see the blood.The 25 -year -old welder Mark said: "Once when I had sex with her, I found that she was dripping blood. She just came to menstruation, and I seemed to have been hit hard.
Dr. Schiller said: "Many men think that blood is not clean and harmful. If you don't know how he reflects, it is best to inquire in advance."
