Whether men or women have sexual dysfunction, some are temporary and some are long -lasting.The most serious is the complete erectile dysfunction caused by paraplegia.The more car accidents caused by modernization of society have also increased the number of people in this group.The erectile disorders caused by other reasons are also very common, accounting for 10%of men. As the physical aging and physical strength decrease, sexual function continues to decrease. At the age of 70, 60%of men have erectile dysfunction.The characteristics of erectile disorders are that the incidence of young people is low and the incidence of middle -aged and elderly people is high.Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction of men. Mild premature ejaculation accounts for about 15%of men, moderate to 10%, while severe premature ejaculation accounts for about 5%.The characteristics of premature ejaculation are that the incidence of young people is high. Because they are too fast to ejaculate, they not only have no good sexual satisfaction, but their spouses are even more painful. They are often splashed with cold water at a critical moment of passion.Shadow.Women do not like sexual intercourse because of various diseases, so it is even more important to replace in other ways.
When it comes to sexual behavior, people will immediately think of the standardized sexual intercourse of the penis inserted into the vagina, but today it is necessary to explore the sexual behavior of not inserting the process to change our sexual concept and enrich our sexual life.
In fact, when people are pursuing sexual behavior centered on insertion, they also enter a misunderstanding, which continues to reduce the way of sexual life and reduce fun.Women often complain that men do not care about women without sexual intercourse. Only when they want to sexual intercourse can they reflect diligence and friendship.Men are also afraid of women, and they are afraid that they cannot show the male style of men. The more worried, the more they are "shot".Because people are concerned about how long they can last, make the romantic and harmonious sexual life be monotonous, and couples with sexual dysfunction are even more troublesome.In fact, even if there are sexual dysfunction, you can still get good sexual satisfaction. The key is how to view sex.
The premise is to overcome psychological obstacles.Couples without sexual dysfunction can be very rich in sexual life. Many people even have sexual satisfaction in long -term foreplay. They have no further sexual intercourse, but everyone feels satisfied, especially in a good mentality.The elderly and some young women who cherish their husbands.Couples with sexual dysfunction believe that the foreplay is paved with sexual intercourse. There is no sexual intercourse. What is the use of foreplay?Especially men are very easy to think so.They cannot erected, thinking that they have no dignity in front of women.In fact, many women do not necessarily need to insert sexual intercourse, and emotional communication and feeling of stroking are also very beautiful.The key is that men must overcome inferiority and shame, so that they can be happy to women and bring happiness to themselves.In this process, the central government consultation and women's encouragement are very important.Below we introduce several sexual methods suitable for sexual dysfunction couples.
1. Give full play to compensation.People know that a common truth is that blind people's hearing is often better than ordinary people. Why?Medical is called compensation.Other organs also have similar phenomena.Some people with severe dysfunction, such as paraplegia patients, have lost their feelings of genitals, but they are congested height by kissing and oral sex to achieve a reaction like orgasm, which is also a compensation.Modern medicine believes that human skin is the biggest sexual organs, but because we are often inserted, we ignore the development and utilization of skin sensations.I met a loving couple. Because women have vaginal spasm, they do not insert sexual intercourse, but their oral sex has reached a very perfect level.
2. Through the other parts of the body, such as hands, mouth, tongue, etc., it stimulates the opponent's sexual sensitive area.In the case of ensuring hygiene, these sexual intercourse methods are not as heavy as the sexual intercourse method, and there is no difference between the advantages and disadvantages. Therefore, it is not necessary to think that the adoption of these methods is not normal, which is different from others.In fact, healthy couples will also use different ways to increase the fun of sex.Pan Suiming, a professor of sex sociology at Renmin University of China, found that the Chinese human life survey completed in 2000 found that men mainly increase their pleasure by adopting various fresh sexual intercourse methods. The investigating men think that their wives can use their mouth to stimulate themselves to increase the pleasure of 35%.Oral stimulus can increase the pleasure of 45%.What women need are more carelessness. Kissing in sexual life can increase by 43%. Husbands can increase their vulva by 64%, stroke their nipples by 74%. If the caress is sufficient, it can increase by 212%.It can be seen that sometimes simply skin friction can wipe the hot sparks.
3. Sexual products.When a spouse has a sexual dysfunction or physical discomfort, the most useful role can be fully used. The most used should be a fake penis. For women who do not reach orgasm, they can often induce orgasm by fake penis.
4. Audiovisual tools.Various visuals and auditory sexual stimulus can be rich in sexual life. From video to VCD, and develop to the Internet, they all give people a richer hearing and visual experience. You should take the initiative to use these modern science and technology to make our sexual sex.Life is rich.Husbands and wives can buy each other's favorite books or film and television works, even if they are idols in their hearts.Imagination is the source of the richest sex life. Don't kill each other's emotional needs.Some couples even reject the other party who likes to know that they don't know each other. In fact, this is just a spiritual sustenance and has no contradiction with real life.
5. Sexual behavior language.The role of words in sexual feelings is amazing, but we have almost no language that can be used in sexual life, and even the names of sexual life are so stiff and rigid.Some studies have shown a sexual stimulation effect on the words of swearing or scolding. The West advocated that the use of rude or swear words between husbands and wives is rarely spoken to stimulate sexual desire, as if using condiments.The language of sex life needs to be created. The current sending and acceptance of telephones, mobile phones, and networks, and MMS provides us with a new world. You can compile some secret words or passwords to convey the sexual information that others cannot understand.Sexual pleasure.Of course, elegant poetry and romantic blessings will always bring a pleasant feeling.
In short, as long as you overcome the sense of inferiority and change the concept, the sexual life that is not inserted is still beautiful and romantic. In fact, this is also a higher level of spiritual enjoyment.There is no burden on pregnancy, no harm of sexual transmission, and is not affected by physical conditions.The sex life without insertion is like a virgin land that is not reclaimed. Waiting for someone to work hard, there is a cultivation and a gain, and I wish you a happy and happy person.
(Editor in charge: Internship Liu Suqiong)
