When men and women are in the first time, they often do not satisfy the other party because of nervousness and fear. The initial life is coma due to excessive fear, which is a "sexual phobia."So what should I do if the first sexual sexual intercourse fear?
This happens mainly caused by lack of sexual knowledge.I usually know very little about sexual life, and I have an inexplicable sense of fear of sexual activities. I imagine that sexual intercourse is terrible and painful, and it will bleed.This kind of fear formed before marriage will ask her to treat her marriage as a helpless burden.In this way, the initial intercourse of the new wedding night often fails because of the bride's fear.
There are also some young women who are too deeply influenced by feudal consciousness. They always think that sleeping with men is low -level downward, dirty, sexual intercourse, pregnancy, that is even more men's enjoyment, women's sins and so on.The heads are full of anxiety and fear woven.When the new wedding night sex, anxiety and fear are prone to, resulting in vaginal spasm, the penis cannot be inserted, it occurs, and severe sexual intercourse will be coma.
Some people's sexual phobia is not caused by psychological factors, but that the body may have chronic diseases.This kind of person's sexual can exist, and sexual desire is still strong. However, because of the lack of necessary sexual knowledge, it does not know if sexual life has any impact on chronic diseases and how much influence., Psychological fear of sexual interaction. If you do not pay attention to overcome this emotion, you may slowly cool the flames of love.
The bride with sexual phobia must first master sexual knowledge.Stupid and anxiety produced fear, but knowledge and guarantee rejected fear.
Newly -married couples and prospective brides and prospective grooms are best to read some books related to sexual knowledge, especially prospective brides, and they must also find out some physiological and psychological knowledge such as female sexual psychology and sexual reactions.In this way, we can break the mystery, accept each other, and understand each other.
Shin attention in sexual life.If you find a way to move your attention from the object of fear to other places, the effect of this method is quite good.The groom should not be anxious, otherwise it will exacerbate the fear of his wife, and be more gentle, considerate, caress and patience.
Before sexual intercourse, communicate with your wife some sexual understanding and feelings, say a little more love words, slowly and step by step to stimulate the sexual desire of the wife, do not have vulgar and reckless actions, let alone anxiousHurry up.In the process of sexual intercourse, it shows tolerance, consideration, and loving, and is interested in his wife's sexual phobia.
(Editor in charge: Doudou)
