The married man's desire is low
Many women think that men's sexual desire is very strong.This idea originated from the experience of their girls' years, because at that time, the young guys of the same age were in a period of sexual desire.In fact, a 20 -year -old guy may always want to do "that matter", but for adult married men, they are more inclined to communicate with couples at various levels, rather than just satisfying sexual requirements.
Psychologists pointed out that adolescent men are indeed more sexually fantasies than women. They often easily confuse emotional needs and sexual needs, and want to meet emotional needs through sex.However, with age, work pressure and family burden will weaken the strong sexual desire of adolescence.Of course, there are also a few men's sexual desires have always been stronger and cannot be generalized.
The survey found that the disadvantage among husband and wife who are in harmony with sexual life are often husbands.Men who entered middle -aged and elderly people needed only a hug, kiss or intimate whisper.Sexual intercourse in pure sense is not much attractive to married men.
Continuously indifferent
Men are not interested in sex or repeatedly, lack of subjective desire for sexual activities, including sexual dreams and sexual fantasies, and lack of awareness of participating activities. Even if he deprives his sexual activity, when he is not frustrated, we call it"Calm".There are multiple psychological and physiological factors in this state of men & mdash; & mdash;
Lack of sexual knowledge.It is believed that "one drop of essence, ten drops of blood", sexual activities (including masturbation) will affect people's life span and damage vitality.
Bad life and sex.The schedule is irregular, poor living conditions, lack of freshness in sexual life, and insufficient communication with sexual needs and sexual feelings. The lack of common interests and trust between husband and wife, men often make men's sexual desire for being unable to satisfy their wives to feel depressed and anxious.low.
Age factor.Men's sexual desire orgasm is usually before the age of 30, and then embarked on a downhill road.Their partners may have just got rid of their shy attitude and have stronger needs.
Endocrine system disease.Human sexual desire is closely related to endocrine systems.After the illness, the balancing of sex hormones is disturbed, and human sexual desire will occur abnormal, and even sexually cold or hyperthyroidism will occur.Men's common problems include insufficient secretion of menopause, low thyroid function, and hyperculin ledmia.
EssenceIssues such as ED (erectile dysfunction) and premature ejaculation will frustrate men's self -esteem. After a long time, they begin to avoid or even reject sexual life, which will eventually cause low sexual desire.
In addition, systemic diseases, such as tumors, chronic diseases, neuropathy, malnutrition, excessive fatigue, etc., can cause low sexual desire.Excessive nutrition and excessive obesity can make men have no "sex" interest.Some drugs, such as some antihypertensive drugs, sedatives, or psychiatric drugs, alcoholism, smoking, and drug use are one of the causes of low sexual desire.
Women's initiative can evoke male desire
Literature and film and television works bring a misunderstanding, that is, in sexual life, the man seems to be in the initiative.Once this situation does not match real life, women start to doubt their charm, and men begin to doubt their performance.In fact, men's initiative to be more active when having sex, which can evoke more sexual excitement.Some experts have done experiments and let men and women take the initiative to "attack" in sexual life. As a result, when the woman took the initiative, sexual passion was stronger, and men were more willing to play the protagonist in sexual life.
For most men who are not very interesting, women's initiative will inspire men's ambitions, evoke the potential desire of men, and let men liberate from the responsibility of sexual life protagonists.
(Editor in charge: drunk pen)
