There are many discussions about sexual life in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign, and their views are different.If some ancient books say that if people want to live long, they must adhere to the fineness, control the leakage of semen, and keep the sun and save their lives.Some books say that the color is a bone scraper knife, and the sex is the beast of the flood.Many elderly people are influenced by this traditional concept of sexual taboos, and they have psychologically covered with a shadow, thinking that "semen is as expensive as blood", and believes that sexual life is squandering.When there is a sexual impulse, it is self -blocking, self -depression, and not in the same bed with his wife.
In addition to sexual misleading affecting the mental health of the elderly, sexual depression is also a major scourge to torture the minds of the elderly.The sexual pressure is divided into three aspects. One is that the couple regards sexual life as a transaction and "cooperation project", especially some elderly women., Reject sexual life, so as to "tame" and "educate" husbands.The second is that the husband and wife are sick and should not live sex.The third is the old ideas, causing self -depression.One of the old people said helplessly: "Although I have strong sexual desire, I dare not love & lsquo; Sex blessing & rsquo; I was afraid that others would say that I & lsquo; Morality was lost, obscene and shameful & rsquo;, the younger could not lift his head."
