The discussion case provided by readers (see "Family Doctor", No. 3, No. 61, No. 61, No. 61, No. 3), and said that because of "the ability of sexual life", the honeymoon broke up with the bride before the honeymoon was over.The second marriage two years later was almost divorced because of "".Some information shows that if my country has caused divorce due to discord in sexual life in China, it accounts for 60 % of the total divorce case.
Xu Yanyu, Jiangsu Nantong City, Wang Yanchuan, Chongqing City, Zhu Xiusheng, Chaozhou City, Guangdong, Zhang Kechang, Beijing, Guo Zhonghua, Song County, Henan, Zhang Guoliang, Chengdu, Sichuan, Li Yanping, Nanchang City, Jiangxi, Liu Yu, Huizhou City, Guangdong, and other readers.The opinions are very good.
"Impotence" is not a standard of measurement for physical strength
The existence of Siqiang's readers "I have always been strong, without any pain, and no experience of behavior." How could the question of "impotence" show that he lacks a correct understanding of the cause of impotence.This is also a problem that some readers also exist.
"Impotence" belongs to men.It refers to a manifestation of the penis, but the penis cannot be erected, or although it can be erected, but it cannot maintain sufficient hardness or time, so that it cannot complete a manifestation of normal sexual intercourse activities.It has no direct relationship with the so -called men's "masculinity", and it cannot be used as a measure of a male body and physical strength.From the perspective of Wangwen Shengyi, the word "impotence" itself is easy to cause misunderstandings. Therefore, many scholars currently believe that it is more appropriate to directly use the "erectile dysfunction" (English abbreviation "ED") to describe this performance.
Generally, there are three types of penile erections: reflexive erections, that is, penile erections caused by directly stimulating the penis or other sexually sensitive parts; the heart erection of the heart is derived from the stimulation of the brain under the stimulus of hearing, vision, smell, and even illusions, and issues instructions to instructions.The penile erection; spontaneous erection during night sleep.They can occur alone or comprehensive.The causes of erectile dysfunction are also more complicated. There are both mental and psychological factors (belonging to "psychological impotence" without organic changes), as well as factors that are systemic and local lesions ("" organic impotence "existing in substantial lesions))For example, endocrine impotence, neuropaturated, vascular impotence, and so on.
"", Which is contrary to the difficulty of penile erection, refers to the condition that the penis continues to erect for several hours or even tens of hours.It is usually not dependent on excitement. It can be not yet clear, or it can be caused by pelvic venous thrombosis, hypoxia and certain drugs.Obviously, these "persistent" erectiles are a pathological state, and it is by no means "strong body" and "strong yang".
Most "impotence" needs to "fake"
The case of Siqiang readers said, "In the morning & lsquo; urgent urine & rsquo; when waking up, the lower body is hard, then it will not be the real & lsquo; impotence & rsquo;".This statement is scientific.
Penile erection is a physiological function of men.Due to the constraints of society, ethics, culture and other factors, human brains always inhibitory reactions during the day. However, after sleeping, the brain's inhibitory disappears, and the penis will spontaneously erection.Regardless of whether it is a young man or a 60 -year -old elderly, every normal man can have different degrees of penis erections in different degrees of sleep in sleep, and these spontaneous erectiles in these sleep are preciseOne of the diagnostic criteria for erectile dysfunction (ie, ingredient impotence).
It can be said that the vast majority of "impotence" is a "false impotence" that does not have substantial lesions. As long as the psychological effects such as fear, anxiety, and nervousness are eliminated from the spiritual level, they can eliminate erectile dysfunction and prevent these "false impotence".Healed without medicine.
Therefore, if you find that there are erectile dysfunction, do not worry, remember that "when you wake up in sleep or have penis erections in the morning, it is not true & lsquo; impotence & rsquo;" This simple "experience talk" "Essence
Don't worry about the "impotence" for the new wedding night
Siqiang readers said that his newly married night found that he "had no ability to live sex", "No matter how hard he worked, he was ashamed of defeating", "he has lost confidence in himself", and he "A friendly manner is friendly. "Many readers' letters expressed their regrets for this reason, and even more thoughtful for the second time, the readers almost divorced the sweat again because of the bad performance of the candle night in the cave house.
Penile erection is a physiological function, the result of congestion of the penis sponge body.In the past, vein closure was the key to the congestion of the penis sponge.However, further studies have found that although a large amount of blood is in the sponge body, it only increases the penis and thickened, and cannot achieve a strong erection.To make the penis strong, more importantly, every gap in the penis sponge body, that is, the smooth muscle relaxation of the smooth muscle in the sponge sinus, so that each sponge sinus is completely open, and the blood can be fully filled.At the same time, arterial dilation is timely supplying blood, and veins are squeezed and closed due to the expansion of the sponge sinus, so that the penis is fully erected and maintained for a period of time.
Many men have difficulty in penile erection during sexual intercourse, or they cannot maintain a satisfied erection.The vast majority of this situation belongs to occasional erectile dysfunction, especially on the wedding night.The reason can be excessive stress, extreme fatigue, excessive smoke and alcohol, lack of sex education, and sexual sex for both parties.
Treating an incidental erectile dysfunction, you must not be worried, let alone push it to the degree to solve it with divorce.Accept this fact with the normal heart, so that most of the occasional erectile dysfunction can disappear naturally naturally.Otherwise, you will become like a reader ("Heart -due to impotence") because of anxiety and fear.
"Fake Fake Formula" requires a small couple to cooperate
Some people have estimated that there are currently more than 150 million adult men around the world, with different degrees of erectile dysfunction.However, "organic impotence" caused by illness is very few after all.
The cause of occasional erectile dysfunction is prone to occurrence.To eliminate this annoying "false impotence", as the wife of a strong reader said, "it is the common thing of a husband and wife."Indeed, the close cooperation of the small couple is an important condition to effectively crack down on "false impotence".
A pair of newcomers come together, and the two sides need a running -in process to gradually enter the best state of sexual sex.If you are anxious to achieve success, especially when the occasional erectile dysfunction and failure to complete the sexual intercourse, the husband's anxiety and panic, the wife's complaints and dissatisfaction are all poisonous poisons.Sometimes, the wife sighs gently, and it will become an indelible heart disease that the husband will be obliterated, thereby strengthening the erectile dysfunction.
Therefore, the small couple should have a natural and urgent demand and sufficient rest in the cave in the cave room.
The problem that the young couple failed to solve them must seek the help of a psychologist through sexual psychological counseling. This is an important way to effectively relieve the "mental impotence".Just like the wife of Siqiang's readers, in the case of being deceived by her husband's false pharmaceutical advertisements, she went to see the psychologist with her husband in time, and finally eliminated the problem of "false impotence" and obtained "a very harmonious and happy sex life" in her husband and wife., It's really gratifying!
As for the very few organic impotence caused by the disease, although there may be psychological factors at the same time, it should still actively treat primary diseases.Without treating primary diseases, simply solving psychological problems cannot be cured by organic impotence.
(Editor in charge: Internship Liu Suqiong)
