When people are 40 years old, they are called "not confused". They have a mature understanding of many things in life and work. They should have been easier to cope with daily affairs.However, another kind of confusion occurs at this age, that is, or disgusting sex.Middle -aged people around 40 years old, especially middle -aged men, have become accustomed to having a bland and unpreparedness because their husbands and wives have been together for many years, and the attractiveness of each other gradually faded.The tension atmosphere caused by the tedious sex life began.If this relationship is not handled in time and properly, it can be imagined in the next situation.
However, how to keep the relationship between husband and wife permanently maintaining honey and warmth is also one of the topics worth paying attention to and studying today.Generally speaking, men have a strong sexual desire and have the characteristics of positive, active and offensiveness, and women are mostly manifested as negative, passive, and bearing characteristics.But this situation is not a manifestation of sexual reactions for men and women.Most information shows that over time, the requirements and reactions of men and women on sexual life can change greatly.Men often have more demanding sexual life than women before the age of 25. They reach their peak at the age of 25 to 30, and then start to go downhill.
When most women are 26 to 28 years old, they are fully expressed in sexual and psychology at the age of 30.After the age of 30, most of the women have had greater children and their children are greater. From then on, they can easily cope with the sexual requirements of her husband, and sometimes show great initiative.As a result, when the sex of men and women reaches around 40 years old, a obvious "sexual desire" will be formed. Some people call it "poor scissors".Naturally, it will be confused about men who have a good career.
In response to this dilemma, it is a top priority to be troubled by this incident or to enter the 40 -year -old man to do the following "work".
1.Actively exercise your body, arrange your work reasonably, pay attention to the adjustment of diet structure, maintain a good mood, prevent the production and development of various diseases, and prevent the occurrence of hypertension and other occurrence.
2.The sex harmony between the husband and wife comes from the emotions of the couple. To this end, the middle -aged couple must care, support and encourage each other in their careers, and need to care, post it and take care of each other in life, so that both the husband and wife still appreciate the warmth and happiness of the family.
3.Learn and master some necessary sexual knowledge and sexual skills, often change some methods and methods in sexual life, create a more romantic sexual living environment, and add new ideas and comfort to sex life.
4.To properly treat the degradation of function, especially the wife should understand the sexual ability of her husband, and be good at gaining some joy from the communication with her husband, and enhancing the husband's sexual confidence.
5.To cultivate new common hobbies between the two sides, it is best to have sports and brain -healthy sports. In common hobby projects, the two sides can often find unexpected joy and delay physical, psychological and sexual aging.
If the above points have been fully completed, when they are still unsatisfactory, they can also go to the specialist to seek medical treatment. These confusion can generally be lifted, and the sex life and other relationships of the husband and wife can still be happy and harmonious.
(Editor in charge: Chen Bong)
